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Girls

So recently I have been having this odd conviction that I should start chasing girls (oops, I mean pursuing a serious relationship with young ladies) because there are way too many shady guys going out with good girls. Why do girls date "under" them? Perhaps all guys are "under" good girls. Nah, I don't think so.

First, I think girls should be smart about who they date. Obviously who am I to tell a girl who to date? Girls like all kinds of guys, and maybe some of them I think are weird ones. Anyways, I can't control that. Maybe girls can't control who they are attracted to either. However, they can still use discretion. And guys, where do I begin? We are a disgrace. We needs God's grace abundantly, that's all I can say. This is a list of traits I think a good girl should look for, and what a good guy should have.

1) A love for God-a desire to be in Him and know Him
2) A love for people.
3) Maturity, especially in respect to people. Spiritual maturity should be directly linked with "Regular" maturity. This means loving interaction with brothers and sisters and a HIGH LEVEL of respect for women (and men).
4) Physical competency. You need to be able to take care of yourself properly. There's no reason why Christian guys shouldn't set the standard for good health, strength, and attractiveness.
5) Confidence. There's rampant passivity especially among Asian-Christian circles. You got to get the girl.

Not that you haven't heard a bunch of sermons and read a bunch of books on this stuff. You're probably saying to yourself: "yeah, I have all that." Ok... good. Save your sisters from shady fobs (Hahaha).

First blogger of 07

I should recap on what's happened this year.
-Working out
-Practicing (had my recital)
-Classes on Music History, should I venture and study something [gulp] outside of the music building? Maybe an interesting course about asians...

I need to write a long post about girls again.

Maybe next time because I have to finish an essay tonight.